The Fear of Losing More

The Fear of Losing More

Oh my God. My son Alex just turned three. He’s the same age as my daughter was when she died.  I never thought I’d feel like this, but somehow I’m afraid. What if the same thing happens again? My rational mind knows it won’t happen, but how do you stop yourself...
Grief and the holidays

Grief and the holidays

For many people, the 1st of November is the first sign of the approaching winter. In some religions, this date is celebrated as the “Feast of All Saints” and being the day after All Hallow’s Eve, it’s traditionally the time when we remember our loved ones who’ve...
It takes only a second…

It takes only a second…

to change your life permanently. And you never expected it… Dear Nela,Happy birthday, my sweet baby.  Today would have been your fourth birthday. There’s so much I’d like to say to you, but I can’t seem to find the right words. I miss you so very much. Saying that...